Lost ..

So last night was like a reunion of all my school friends , occasion being one of our friends engagement. It was a really nice function, perfect venue, perfect ambience, perfect food, everything being perfect. Met all my friends after a really long time, not that they don’t meet, just that I was not a part of the group for a long time. It went fine, but somehow still felt lost. With so many things, just felt lost. There were a lot of people around still feeling of being lost didn’t just want to leave me at all.

It happens with all of us, right? Just feeling so empty and lost from inside. Just thinking what your someone special will be doing at the same very moment when you are away from them. All you keep on doing is wondering whether they might be thinking about you the same way you are thinking about them. Inspite of being with everyone you still feel all alone.

Everything around is going good, there are people around, there’s food around , exchange of conversations between your friends and some funny jokes around, but still you can’t manage to connect with any of that. That’s the time you realize how lost you are without your special person. You keep checking your phone repeatedly just hoping for one sms from them. You get jittery. At one point you even go to an extent where you start imaging what if your special person is at the same venue where you are and just came all the way so could see you, to just get one glance of you. You start thinking how you going to react, shocked or happy or surprised to see them there. What will the conversation be between the two of you. Who will be the first one to break the ice. But after a certain point of time the reality sinks in and it hits you that its all in your head. That’s not going to happen.

Your friends start to wonder what is the matter with you and the reason behind you being miss quite one in the group. Till then the damage is already done. It’s all visible that something is bothering you. After a certain point of time you stop trying to convince people that you are fine because no matter how hard you will try, face says it all.

By the end of the function you realize the rings have been exchanged, you have the congratulated the newly engaged couple, you met some other people, spoke a little, clicked few pictures with your childhood friends, you managed to eat some food and desert, tried very hard to enjoy the occasion and you are on your way home. But what has not changed is that one feeling of being lost, you are still all lost and still your heads playing all the images of seeing your special person. Hoping that from somewhere anyhow you get a glimpse of them. But it doesn’t happen. All that happens is you reach home, still waiting for a sms or a call before you can get some sleep with the feeling of being lost.

Love is the pure form of emotions.

Its been a pretty hard week. Going through a lot of changes and things happening in life. But still hoping that God makes things better. Praying God shows me the right path. Everyday I’m learning new things from everything. Never loose your identity is one of them. Loving that someone special is always a great feeling but having your own identity along with loving that someone is what will make your life beautiful. We end up doing things according to your loved ones in return forgetting ourself.

We become so dependent upon one another, that after a point of time either one starts to feel too caught up. Thats a situation which should never arrive. Unfortunately it does. You then don’t understand what should be the next step to make it right. It becomes tough to understand and handle the situation. But why do we tend to forget the love which is there between the two. When you love someone, you put your heart and soul into it. During difficult times instead of holding on to the love we start pushing them away from our self, which is not fair. Love is the pure form of emotions and lucky are those who are in love. We forget that. We all do.

Its very difficult to find a true love, when you do cherish it, appreciate it, adore it, love it, go all crazy for it, love like no one has ever loved before. Never let small issues become the reason for the loss of love. Communicate the differences and try to find a solution. There’s nothing in this world that can not be resolved by talking. Talk and communicate your view point. Do not let small issue be the reason to loose an emotion which is so pure. When there’s confusion between heart and mind, always listen to your heart  because mind will know everything but heart will only know you. In anger a person takes a wrong decision, that is all happening in your head, but when the same decision is made by your heart, you will know how wrong your head was. Heart is where love resides. Heart is even pure. Heart will never take wrong decision. Its the head which makes you do all the wrong things and its the head which makes you hurt your loved one.

Do not let small issues become so big that your head takes a wrong decision which later on your heart will regret. Love is not easy to find but is very easy to loose, never let that happen.

Where theres a will, Theres always a way ..

I have not got time to post something past couple of days, lot has been going around. The only best thing I realized about it is that where theres a will, theres always a way, all you have to do is have faith in it and it has just brought me close to God and myself all over again.

I have never been a person to give up on something so easily, as the matter of fact no one should give up. Only after falling one learns to stand back again. When you do decide willingly to stand again, God is always there to help you. He will open all the doors for you and one just needs to choose the best door being sure that it will change your life in a positive way. You also have to remember that whatever door you choose will affect on your loved ones. So select wisely.

We all are like children adapting and learning from our mistakes through out the journey of life. We should even remember that not to let our past experiences take us off from the right path. Never give up should be our motto. Stronger the will and believe, faster we will reach to the right way leading us to happiness.

Family

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Its so true. Life is very unpredictable and challenging. Everyone might leave you, but not your family. Family is all about loving one another unconditionally. Whether its your parents or spouse, they all are always there for you, standing right besides you, holding your hand whenever you need them. One can always count on them without even having the need to tell them, they understand each and every word behind that silence of yours. Thats why they are Family !!

My Favorite Quotes.

Some of my favorite quotes :

” DAD, a sons first Hero. A daughters first Love.”

” Sometimes the prettiest smiles hide most of the secrets. And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.”

” Our prime purpose in this life is to help other. And if you cannot help them, at least do not hurt them” – Dalai Lama.

” The couples that are Meant to Be are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger than they were before.”

” Be so good they can’t ignore you” – Steve Martin.

” To give someone a piece of your heart, is worth more than all the wealth in the world.” – Michael Jackson.

” Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you. Not because they are not nice, but because you are nice. “

” Be honest with the people who love you. They deserve your honesty.”

These are few of the quotes that I like to read all the time and help me a lot of times . Hope they help you all too in some way or the other.  

Thankful

How difficult is it to thank someone for just their mere presence in our life and appreciate them ? We have forgotten one thing that theres always something to be thankful for, one could be thankful for a new day in his/her life, or to have amazing people around you without whom once family would have no meaning at all. Instead we end up hurting our near n dear ones, not only them, we start hurting our life even in some way or the other. We become preoccupied and too comfortable that for us, every relationship means the same and slowly we forget their importance and value in our life.

To change this trend of not appreciating one another we need to start understanding and valuing every single relationship in our life. It may be with our parents, our partner, our siblings, our children and our grandparents. We really need to understand their importance in our life, without these relationships one will be empty, empty from inside. Randomly just thank them just for being a part of your life. You know what would be much better, when you would thank them for letting you be a part of their life, because even we are aware of that without them we will never be happy and somewhere even scared of loosing them. Just randomly letting them know that they mean the world to you would change everything. Even if there has been some grudge in the past, wouldn’t matter after they know how you truly feel about them.

Doing this is not easy, but not even that difficult. Everyday just being thankful for something or the other will automatically turn into a habit. Once you start with your loved ones slowly you will see that theres so many other things in life, for instance right now I’m thankful for my laptop and the internet connection, without them I wouldn’t have been able to share my thoughts with all you readers out there. Same way every single day start understanding the importance of everyone and everything, in return all you will receive is happiness. You would love it if your loved one truly appreciated you, right? The same way even your family deserves the same amount of happiness. When one shares his/hers happiness with others , it always multiplies.

Be thankful to everyone and everything in your life, it will make you happy from within.

Selfless Love.

Today I’m trying to write my second blog and all I can think about is selfless love. Somewhere at some point of life one realizes that selfless love is the true Love. We get so caught up doing things according to what makes us happy ,that we end up hurting a lot of people. For just one day without being selfish we should selflessly try doing some good deed for another person, that person could be a parent, children, spouse,or a friend. You will be pleased and will feel happy from within after seeing how a small selfless deed brought a smile on their face.

We all should try it because we all love our dear ones.