“I DO”

When is the perfect time to say “I Do” in a relationship ? One really cannot say or predict a perfect time. Such things just happen, all that matter’s are the true feelings. When you truly feel that you have found the right person and want to spend your entire life with him/her, I guess that is it, that is the time you know and are ready to say I Do. But not necessary that it happens all the time, maybe in a relationship one might feel it’s the perfect time and other just might won’t.

It’s really hard to find true and a genuine person in this world and people who do never understand their value. There are people who have that someone special but somehow they manage to lose them, either they choose to go their separate ways for whatever reasons or there are some those who loose their partner to unfortunate accidents, and so on. There’s one thing common between these people that they never get a chance to say or express their love to each other and say I Do.

I met an old friend of mine yesterday and we were talking about random things, when I told her about my brother’s marriage all she said was it’s good that he found someone, a genuinely nice person since it’s really hard to find one in today’s world and it’s all destiny. I knew she was absolutely right so without taking another second agreed with her. My brother and his legally wedded wife ( LOL ) have been childhood sweethearts and have been together for more than 11years now. They had their ups and downs , which every relationship has but what’s important is that it was destiny right from the start till now which decided their future together.

It feels nice to see when someone, actually a couple get’s a chance to say I Do. When you truly love someone you shouldn’t doubt it. Never doubt the love you have. Respect it. It take’s a lot of courage to walk down the aisle not just for a man but even for a woman and is hard for some. Appreciate it. It should become a priority to take the responsibility of one another. Realize it.

Destiny plays a big role and I am a strong believer. I am so happy and proud, my brother had the courage to make such a huge decision and the courage to take on the responsibility. He is going to be a wonderful husband. 🙂 . All the best to him and his would be wife.

A Day to Life Post – 4.

It’s my younger bother’s wedding in June, which is less than 5months. He’s a year younger to me and this would be the first wedding in our family and among the siblings. We are 4 of us, 2 sisters and 2 brothers, including me. He and his fiancé registered their marriage in court on the 28th of December, 2012, so if we go to see they are legally married. The wedding in June is going to be a traditional Indian wedding with all the customs and will go on for at least 5 days, we really do have lots of rituals and they have to be performed before the wedding. My granny, aunt and cousins will be flying down to be a part of all the ceremonies.

I am just excited, actually we all are. So many preparations have to be done and I am so sure that the time will just fly. There’s so much to do in so little time. Shopping for all, deciding on songs for the dance, the invites, preparing the guests list, sending the invites, the list of things to be done is just too long. Luckily the venues are already booked. So in some of the coming posts I will be talking about the preparations for the wedding.

It’s so exciting, can’t wait for the wedding day. 🙂

A Day to Life Post – 3

This is something I just wrote :

No matter whatever happens,

Never loose your mind and hope.

No matter whatever happens,

Just believe in your goals.

No matter whatever happens,

Never let anyone tell you that you are not capable enough.

No matter whatever happens,

Prove such people wrong.

No matter whatever happens,

Always be there for yourself.

No matter whatever happens,

Never trust a person will forever stay.

No matter whatever happens,

Find happiness in every walk of life.

No matter whatever happens,

You will never get back this time.

Short Story – ‘Ray Of Miracle’

The sun was about to rise, all she could see was a tinge of orange color somewhere far behind the sea. It looked as if sun was playing hide and seek with her with the waves vanishing once they reached the shore. She knew there was no one else except her sitting on white cold sand, waiting for the sun rise hoping that this would somehow brighten her life and prayed for some miracle to take place.

Lost in the memory lane and staring at the sun’s direction, now she could barely hear the sound of the waves. One by one all the moments of her past 4years appeared in front of her eyes making it look like she was watching some play. It seemed like just yesterday that they met and she took no time to decide that he was the perfect one with whom she could spend her entire life. She remembered every single second spent together and couldn’t believe that he could deceive her, be unfaithful. She started going through the years step by step, first thinking about all the happy moments together, the birthdays, festivals, holidays, which were way too many and countless. They made her smile. A smile which she hoped could last forever. The couple in her imagination looked so happy, a perfect couple madly in love with each other, she thought to herself. The sea shore had suddenly covered half the distance approaching her, disturbing her thought’s for a while.

Then she started to imagine and see the conflict building between the couple, starting from small fights to the biggest. She now was analyzing them and saw that both looked like 2 individuals who had their own personality and their own thoughts. A personality which was now fighting its way out, reason of the conflict between them. She felt sad, smile vanished and sadness took all over her face making the eyes moist, but controlled herself and didn’t drop a single tear, because the worst was still to come.

She looked over the behavior of her perfect man in details and it started to bother her again. Now the picture in front of her was totally the opposite to the one in the start, looked like 2 people poles apart. Frown and anger was seen on her face because this was where she had found out the truth. It felt for her as if it’s happening again, could feel the pain and the anger of being betrayed. She was once again heart broken, sitting there all alone making it very difficult for her to hold back her tears and she put her head down, letting a drop fall into the sea water since the shore which looked far away had travelled all it’s way to where she was sitting. The tear mixing in the sea water made her feel that it might be a sign from God trying to tell and let her know that He’s there and will take all her pain away. On this thought she let her heart out and cried and cired till the moment for which she was waiting for, the perfect sun rise. Slowly putting her head up, looking at the sun and it’s light, she wiped her own tears, took a deep breath and soaked the light in with the eyes closed.

She imagined the light entering her body and throwing all the bad memories out, transforming her from within. Sitting there for a while, she felt much more stronger, more calm, happy making her realize that she did not do anything wrong among the two of them. Now she felt relieved and confident. This felt like a miracle for what she was waiting, hoped and prayed for, which changed her and the attitude towards life.

Once she stood up, joined her hands thanking God and the sun for bringing in such a lovely morning into her life, a beautiful miracle which was never felt before. Walking towards her new life with a smile, to never look back again. It was the perfect miracle in the form of rays.

                                                                                                                                                  

This is a short story I tried writing, hope you all like it.

A Day to Life Post – 2

Few days back while meditating I sat in front of an open window just to get a feel of how would it be to meditate in the open and now wouldn’t be wrong to say that it brought me more closer to nature and to myself. It was all together a different feeling, you realize the sense of calmness within you. That is exactly what we all are looking for. I just felt like a completely different person and have decided this year to go to some hill station and meditate in the open on a mountain top.

While meditating for the first time I could feel the winter breeze on my face, rays of sunlight on my face, chirping of the birds around my house and then slowly diverted all my attention on the way I was breathing. I felt as if I was among one of the birds flying my way out into the sky. The more I concentrated on myself the more it took me away from the outside world, disconnecting me from every kind of emotions and everything that was around me which was the ultimate purpose, have been practicing everyday. There is so much going on in the world, it becomes very difficult to not have a single thought especially while meditating. But when that happens your mind automatically becomes at peace connecting to your spiritual side. You feel more stronger emotionally and calmer with the issues that have surrounded you for most of your life.

I am sure meditating on a mountain top is going to be an amazing experience for which I just cannot wait and very soon I will be striking off one more point from my bucket list of 2013.