A Day to Life Post- 53!

Lately, I have this feeling that I am a loner. No matter how hard I try to make things right, they just don’t seem to work. No matter how hard I try to put in my 100% into something, it just doesn’t seem to be working. Today is friendships day, and yet again I’m alone even on this day. Well guess no other friendship is better than your own..
Wishing all my friends here Happy Friendship s Day !!


8 thoughts on “A Day to Life Post- 53!”

  1. Just think of one thing, right now, where you have made things right. Another where things have worked out just fine. Happy friendship day back to you….and have a wonderful day ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Thank you !! Your advice helps a lot. Will think of the right things and decisions made be me. Thank you once again !! And happy friendship day to you too !! ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Hi Sonu!

    May I ask, what are you trying to put 100% into? Is it a relationship/friendship with someone? Does it involve someone else? Or are you referring to something you yourself are undertaking and trying to give it 100%?

    If you’re doing something that only involves you, then look at your expectations, what you want as a result, to come out of your efforts. Maybe these are a bit high. The easy solution is to lower your expectations. I’m not suggesting you settle for something second-rate; just lower them a bit.

    If what you’re doing involves another person (and I’m guessing this may be the case), then what you’re doing is just fine.

    Remember, whatever we do that involves another person, we can only be accountable for our own actions (and thoughts and behaviors, etc.). We cannot control anyone else. And we should not feel responsible for them.

    If you’re giving 100% to a friendship, say, then you’re doing all you possibly can. If the other person isn’t doing the same, you should not let that dictate your thinking or feelings. Not giving their all is their problem, not yours. Don’t let it become your problem. Or, in other words, don’t let it ruin your day.

    Be happy with you and what you give to others. For others who truly appreciate you for you, they will give back to you ten-fold what you give to them!

    Be well. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Hi Michael, thank you so much. I was talking about my relationship, which you guessed. I was dating him since five years and in between for around 9 months we had broken off and then giving it a try again. On Monday, he ended it again giving reasons which had a solution, even though I tried everything to save it now it is clear that he just didnโ€™t want to be with me anymore. So I have decided to let him go, because I cannot force anyone to be in love with me. Because in that case even I will look like a selfish person like him. And this was the second time we ended the relationship. I guess as they say, if its meant to be then nothing can stop anyone or anything but maybe it wasnโ€™t meant to be. Maybe we had just got too used to each other and became each others habit instead of becoming each others love.

      Thank you once again, it really helps a lot to read your views. Appreciate it ๐Ÿ™‚
      Thanks to the buddhism I am practicing this time the break up doesnโ€™t seem that bad like the first time.

      You too take care !

      1. Good for you, Sonu (referring to your Buddhist practice)! Continue on your journey, continue forward. As the saying goes, “don’t look back, you’re not going that way.” ๐Ÿ™‚

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